You will get what you deserve NOT what you desire !

We often come across people complaining that they are not getting what they want in life. They don’t get; their dream job, desired wife, enough salary and so on. Failing to achieve or get what they want, often people complain that god is not kind hearted and is not favorable to them.

But, the philosophers claim that, “One will get what one deserves but, NOT what one desires” in life. God, the creator of so many worlds - can’t he fill your little house with peace ?;  your little pocket with enough money?; your little heart with joy?. Is it not possible for the GOD ? Or is the ‘god’ is against you..? Nay – that is not the case. After all we are all the children of the ‘god’ he has no enmity toward us. God is not angry over anyone in the world.

The father in a family will give whatever his children deserve. Can a father arrange marriage for his child of 5 years, even if the child is begging for..? Can the same father buy a small toy for his lad of 19 years..? A father will not give his little child one million dollars even if the child is asking for. I. e., the father bestows onto his children what they deserve but, not what they desire. He knows what to give onto his dear children even though they don’t ask for. If this is the situation, then how do you expect the ‘god’ the almighty to bestow onto you what you don’t deserve? God definitely gives you, just what you deserve not all you want or desire.

After all we are the children of ‘god’, he knows well what to give us and what not to give us. Just by crying before the ‘god’ he can’t bestow onto you all you beg for. But, he could give you certain things if you ask the god repeatedly which he didn’t give you at the first moment. This is because, you were not matured enough at the first moment and he intentionally delayed to give you the ‘boon’ and during the delay, he might have given you the needed maturity before giving you ‘what you begged for’.

But, in many cases ‘god’ might not bless you with what you ‘desire’ though you beg the god repeatedly. This is because; ‘god’ wants to teach you a lesson, keeping you in distress; in troubles; in severe pains and problems – that’s all. Perhaps, that might be the only way possible to teach you that particular lesson and there might not be other ways possible. So, the ‘god’ had chosen that particular way and kept you in the particular misery. Otherwise ‘god’ wouldn’t give you the misery you are facing.

All the beings, we came to the world, only to get maturity, to enlightenment. This can’t come unless the ‘soul’ faces myriad kinds of troubles and pleasures. Just like the ‘lightening’ coming out of the dark clouds, knowing comes out of ‘miseries’ and ‘troubles’. There is no other way around.

In the course of evolution, each person has gone through different paths of life and has acquired different kinds or levels of maturity. But, there are certain doors or locks unopened in each and every individual. In order to open these closed doors, ‘god’ keeps each person in a different type of problem, this is why each person has a different problem to solve in life, like the famous adage goes, ‘that that man, that that problem’.

Problems are meant to make you more mature but, NOT to make you weep or cry. In solving the problems, in facing the difficulties, in suffering – the ‘soul’ gets maturity. So, ‘god’ gives each person a different kind of problems or pain to make them perfect. This is why all are not having the same problem in life and pleasure too.

A matured person will get some kind of problem which an immature person will not get and vice versa. This is because the second kind of problem is of no use to the ‘mature’ person and the like and the mature person might have gone through the problem long before that an immature person might be facing at present.

God is not an idiot. He definitely knows what to do and what not to do! He knows; when, what, where, how and how much to give you – that is what you deserve. God will not make mistakes as he is the omniscient.

God gives you what you deserve and NOT what you desire – just to make you more and more mature. God wants to take you to the paradise. Paradise is a place of ‘matured people’. So, in order to make you mature ‘god’ gives you puzzles and problems to ‘sharpen your soul’ but, NOT to make you weep for sure.

So, if you get problems in life, accept them whole heartedly knowing that it is meant only for your good. The moment you accept the problems and miseries that come to you – they will naturally subside or at least they will not pain you much.

If you know how to solve a riddle then it will not puzzle you. So, if you know why ‘god’ gives you all kinds of problems – then the problems will not make you suffer and you could pass the life peacefully.

Unless we face all sorts of problems we will not get the maturity. Remember that, “unless a rock is hit by the chisel, the statue is not out!”

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